A lot of men are trying to find ways to talk to women that allows them to come across as confident and attractive. It is actually pretty easy if you quit doing all the normal, things men do that just turn women off.
These are my personal advice on how to talk to women:
Drop the pick up lines. These are just plain horrible. This are just a heap of garbage that men memorize and they only show that he doesn’t really care enough to say anything unique. You come across just as dashing a bum on the street asking for a handout. “Spare some change?” Does that have you feel like getting to know someone? That’s what I thought.
Also don’t try to impress her with your fancy job title, new sports car, or any of your other worthless toys. This won’t work because your entering into the situation by putting the girl up on a pedestal as someone you have to impress. You are going in with the belief that she should see you as less than her. If you have a little brother or sister that was always trying to impress you and your friends growing up, you know how annoying that can be. Absolutely not cool.
For the same reason, don’t make a huge deal about how “beautiful” or “hot” the woman is. There’s a good chance that she knows you think she’s attractive. I don’t have to tell you this since you’re not a shallow guy, right?
Alright, so we know now what to avoid. This is what I advise you do when talking to women.
Approach her like a friend and just have an enjoyable conversation. Try to see the woman as equal to you. A few “dating gurus” will tell you to treat her like you’re better than the girl. I’m not one of these guys. It is easy to overdo it and look like a total jerk. This personally isn’t for me, but I will say that will put you ahead of all the men that make the mistakes I mentioned above.
If you see a woman as your equal, you don’t feel the need to impress her with all your shiny toys. You just have a normal conversation. Yes, there’s a good chance that she’s really attractive, but that’s no reason to act differently.
Remember she is an actual person that has her own dream and fears. Someone that cries and laughs. When you really start to get this you don’t have to worry about being a creep or being slimy. Plus you’ll have a fighting chance at actually getting to know the woman and building attraction.
The core here is to not put the woman up on a pedestal. If you try to approach her believing that you have to earn her respect, you’re dead in the water before you even say hello. Talking to girls isn’t hard. Just treat the woman like any other person you might have a conversation with.
If you enjoyed this article, also check out How to Talk to Girls, Where to Meet Women, and What to Say to a Girl.
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