Attractive woman

How do you attract women? Men have been trying to find the answer since the beginning of civilization.

Being a woman, I’m truly flattered that men continue to search for the answer to this question, and I want to help. But to know how to turn a woman on, you first have to know what turns her OFF.

The truth is, it only takes seconds for a man to win or lose a woman. That means you have to be ready for any situation.

Here are the top 6 things men do that are instant turnoffs – that every beautiful woman has experienced in her life.

1. Too little or too much eye contact.

First of all, if a man approaches me but can’t hold eye contact, it’s a sure sign of insecurity. And insecurity isn’t attractive at all.

On the flip side, you don’t want to give such intense eye contact that you freak the girl out. Don’t stare at a woman for too long – back off a bit or you’ll make her uncomfortable.

How to make eye contact with a girl: Relax your eyebrows so you don’t look so intense. Don’t sit too close to her, and don’t lean in, but look right into her eyes. Occasionally break to look away briefly, then reconnect.

Add a small smirk or smile for additional effect.

2. Not being a good listener.

A past client of mine was a very cute man with a great personality and vibe. But when we started doing some role playing, he’d totally go into awkward robot mode.

He’d talk but then he wouldn’t let me talk at all. I’d be in the middle of answering his questions and he’d interrupt me and start the next question. Not listening to my answers at all~He totally didn’t hear what I said~He was not listening to me at all}.

Remember, women are looking for something about you to engage and connect with. Without connection, there’s no curiosity, interest or attraction.

You have to truly listen to what a woman says. If you recall some of it later in the conversation (even using her own words), I promise she’ll be like putty in your hands.

3. Bragging.

You know who you are. Don’t brag to a woman about your accomplishments or your material possessions.

Bragging just makes you look really insecure.”

That’s when it’s no longer impressive, and definitely not attractive.

4. Acting needy.

I’ve been on a lot of dates, and I just can’t stand it when I meet a great guy who contacts me ALL THE TIME.

He’d try to follow up every way possible – text, email, voicemail. Don’t act like you want her way more than she wants you. So if you ever meet a great girl and hit it off, remember that she wants you to have a life of your own too.

If you show too much interest too quickly it will only make you look desperate.

5. Revealing too much.

As a woman, when I feel feminine, I feel attractive. And attracted.. Women want to be with men – they want to be feminine around someone masculine. I think masculinity is really about being able to control yourself and your emotions.

That means you need to be able to respect yourself and control yourself enough so you don’t tell us your whole life story right when we meet. This usually happens when guys are nervous and they just keep talking about everything – but you have to control yourself and hold back a little.

You should be qualifying her as much as she’s qualifying you at first. Don’t tell her everything – a little mystery is attractive. If not, she’ll get the idea that you’re a little too happy to talk to her.. Take your time.

6. Not being yourself.

As someone who works in the seduction niche, I know the tricks and tactics men use to pick up women.

I had a client who told me about a pickup line he learned from the Seduction community. This one was about motorcycles. As soon as he started telling the story, I could tell it wasn’t real..

I wasn’t surprised in the least when I asked, “Is this story true?” and he answered with a surprised “No.”

Women aren’t stupid. We can always tell if something seems out of place. It’s okay to use lines as practice from time to time, but always remember to BE YOURSELF. If you need more stories to talk about, that can come from doing more interesting things.

Be comfortable with yourself. Once that’s taken care of, everything else will follow. It takes time to get there, but it’s worth it.

As I always say, you can’t turn a woman on until you turn yourself on.

Now go out there and start getting women attracted!